Influentially influencesive

Episode 34:

A leader is someone who is able to influence others to meet his or her goal. Power is the influence capacity that one possessed towards the others. From these two definitions, conclusion can be draw -- leader = power. There are debates as to whether a leader is natural born or can be taught. I personally feel that it is the former one. One can only learn to become leader-like but not a true leader because there are certain traits, values, and charisma which are unable to learn. It is just like talent, you cannot learn talent do you. Of course a leader is better than a follower due to choices which a leader can choose to either use or not to use the power. Most of the time the power is needless. A leader can influence others verbally or through body language. How annoying. I have lots of examples to give but I don't think you care about it so it is unnecessary. You can think by yourself, observe things that happen on you or around you.

Finally I got my first semesters' result on Tuesday. 2A 1C, I'm not satisfied. I wonder how the lecturer mark the assignment. There's no way I'll get a C and it's only 40 marks, just pass. I don't think I do bad. First assignment is always harder to score but not that worse.

I have a descriptive essay as an assignment. Describe about a gadget and choose a food or drink to recommend to a foreign friend. I'm speechless!

Prey of the week:


Celia and Sandra - The Nanny

You want a piece of me? XOXO GGFF

Revolution

Episode 33:

Everyone was so thrilled this few days. It is the result announcing week and all the SPMer and STPMer is jumping with joy. I'm glad for them. They were all so brilliant!! Since when does sweeping A's is as easy as abc? It keeps me questioning myself - What am I doing when I was that age? So from now on I'll put my heart and soul more into books. I know it's hard especially when I get stuck in the half way but hey, nothing is easy in life right. I've also decided not to sit in front of my laptop so often. Perseverance G.

Recently, two mobile phones caught my eyes - Sony Ericsson X1 and Nokia E36.



Both gorgeous phone but E36 is a typical clone of Blackberry. I wonder whether X1 has sold in Malaysia because I could not spot a store that sell it. I hope it does if not I'll crush. The price is unknown too. So mystery! E36 is around RM1179 if not mistaken and it has GPS function. Is that cool or what! I know, I should not be too carried away.

I wanted to write a post about leadership but something just holding me back. Nothing, just another post on complain that I wanted to share. Save it to next time then.

Prey of the week:


London

Don't let your light slip away. XOXO GGFF

Sweat it out

Episode 32:

Today is my very first time going to gym!! I never would have thought that I will be involving myself into doing body building that kind of stuff but now I guess I was wrong. Gym is not just about body building although that is my main reason for going there, it has other types of equipments which are use for stamina building. Today is all about that. I have tried running machine, cycling machine, staircase climbing machine, and chain-like pulling machine (not sure about the exact name of the machines). It was fun, I kinda enjoyed the feeling of muscle-ache. Crazy? Well, I think maybe is because I have forgotten when is the last time my heart pounding like a nail so I want to get that feelings back.

The reason why I went to gym is not because I'm overweight! I'm skinny. I went because I told a friend that the only way to slim down is go to gym. Initially he wanted to jog but I'm not into it so I just come up with something and out of my expectation he agreed. Which is why I end up in the gym. It is not that bad though, just that last time I was too lazy to bother about it and always try to seek for excuses. The gym provided 10 days free trial. I got nothing to lose so I just give it a try.

Unbelievable? Believe it. XOXO GGFF

21

Episode 31:

Age 21 is always being view as an important stage of one's life as it proves that ones is officially an adult. It's really something that is worth celebrating. Happy Birthday BK! I hope you have a great day & great party! Yes, a party.... I did not attend, so sorry about that. I started to get emotional and it affects my mood. For me, I feel that I should have achieve something when I reach 21 but sadly, I can't really figure out a thing on me which make me proud of. With that, I don't think I should celebrate or share the joy with others and that's why I absent myself for the party. I do not know what's wrong with me, maybe you feel that it's not a problem at all but I just can't ignore it. I wanted to be a role model or someone others may look up to. I'm tired of envy about other people's life.

Anyway, I hope BK will like the present we have bought because I like the bag! I buy the stuff that I like for him(BK) because I do not know what he want.



Well, I might go for therapy. XOXO GGFF

Fragile

Episode 30:

I do not know about you but this word appeared on my mind where I feel that it seems like a message or a truth which I should realize and aware of.

Don't you think human is fragile? We are strong in our ability to invent a lot of great stuff and the innovation and revolution in technology but you would not be able to predict what will happen to you a second after. Just like what happen to me yesterday where I was fine, cheerful, and full of energy in the morning but after dinner, I started to have stomachache and suffer from diarrhea for the whole night. We cannot foresee what disastrous things will happen to us so what makes you think that we are strong? Sometimes people may be vanished by just a word or even their own desire or/and by the non living objects such as power and money.

Another example, an acquaintance from Moral Studies class has just pass away yesterday night. I was in the same class with her yesterday noon where she was energetic as usual and delivering forms to her classmates. Today morning, lecturer told us that she was gone. She fell from her motorcycle and hit by a bus. Can you imagine how shocking it is? Can you explain this? Only God able to. It may looks like a storyline that will only happen in movies which I myself agree too but it really happen in reality. A life can be terminated just within a blink of the eyes.

All I'm trying to say is we should cherish and appreciate what we have and become a better person mentally and psychologically. A minor unconscious may lead to damage just like I spoiled the bench of a motorcycle on the evening when I adjust it without dealing it in the proper way. As everything are fragile, we should be more careful in anything.

Think of it. XOXO GGFF

Jaw dropping

Episode 29:

Sigh. After few weeks of holiday, tomorrow it is time to pick up the bag and return to college. Second semester will be quite tiring due to there are two subjects on one day. I know I can handle it. No big deal!

Ok! My favorite reality shows, whole new season of America's Next Top Model Cycle 12 will be air on 4th of March! I can't wait for it! Share with you the preview.



I found a shocking news about a 13 year old kid become a dad on today's newspaper! This case happen in England where he have unprotected sex with a 14 year old girl, Chantelle last year and the baby girl was born on Monday. Chantelle is 15 this year. Kids today really know how to amaze us, with bad things. I was frustrated about the boy's parents! For me they were very irresponsible and did not portray themselves as a role model to their children. The little boy came from a very terrible family where his parents were divorced and did not live a proper lifestyle. The true reason that trigger my anger were the responses that I saw from a forum. Many treat the news as another teen pregnancy news and did not even realize that it was something sick! They are numb due to the high teen pregnancy rate in their country where they were often flooded by the similar news until they so use to it and do not think that there is anything wrong with it. How pathetic it is! I am going to present about teen pregnancy either tomorrow or coming Thursday.

PS: If you interested, please visit http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article2238252.ece

Ever heard of condom? Use it. XOXO GGFF.

Like that?

Episode 28:

I've discovered the hairstyle I would like to have.



I'm always fall for short hair but I can't seems to find the short hairstyle that I like so I'll have to consider the medium length style. Seems like short hair is not the trend for 2009. I do not know whether it'll fit me but my instinct tell me to go for it. Leave it to the hairstylist though.

I hope it is a serendipity. XOXO GGFF.

PS: Valentine's Day is just one day from now. I'll spend my day with friends tomorrow. Wishing you guys have a wonderful Valentine's Day!

Good girls got hit bad

Episode 27:

Oh! My mom gave me 5 movie tickets of 'the Curios Case of Benjamin Button' today. The screening date is this Sunday 10:30am at GSC Gurney. Anyone interested? Well, I'm not so excited about this movie so I was hesitate whether I shall go or not. It is a story about a man, Benjamin who born as an old man and as time goes by he become younger. He meet Daisy where both of them kindda have crush on each other but as he become younger, she grow older. Will they make it through all the obstacles? It'll be quite a nice Valentines movie though but I'm single for Christ sake. Hah..... I wonder if my friend want to go.

Gosh! I can't believe that Chris Brown hit Rihanna! How could a person be so violent towards the other! The news said that he hit her after she keeps on accused him for flirting with other girl. Well hello, that is what girls always do, what's the big deal?! You have to be thankful that you have a girl who is jealous over you! Sick of those who just do not know how to appreciate. Poor Rihanna, I just want you to know that my shoulder is 24/7 ready for you to cry on. Muahahaha......

You guys want that movie tickets? Opps, I bet you guys don't. XOXO GGFF

Oh my OrangenV

Episode 26:

Wow! I never wanted something so bad especially gadgets but I can't keep my eyes off that mobile phone after I have seen it! The LG enV Orange says: 'buy me'!!






















This phone is to die for! I fall for the QWERTY key board that is so chic and make text messaging faster. Moreover, it is stylish! Too bad that this model is not available in Malaysia. Why!! What's wrong with LG anyway? I think the LG branches each work on their own and produce their own products. Now I have to persuade myself to forget about it but I really want it!! The other reason why I want this mobile phone was due to the influence of Queen Blair. Erhh! Why she has to used this mobile phone! Now I am suffered! Thank you B.

The other model that caught my attention was LG Renoir KC910





















It has 8.0 megapixels camera (my God!) and it is a touch screen 3G phone but the price is about RM1800 to RM2000 plus. Was it too expensive? I think its ok but I am not really a big fan of touch screen phone because there was rumor that the sensitivity will degrade tremendously after a while. Is it true? Oh what should I do?

There are only two options, get it or forget it. XOXO GGFF

V for valentine

Episode 25:

Yes, the most romantic festival is just around the corner. I can smell the fragrant of roses already. I am going to stay at home as usual! Hey, don't get me wrong, I do not feel sad at all because it's just another festival for me. What I concern about is the flashback I got from him. I got a red packet that contained a card which states that I should learn how to show my love to other people. That's kindda become my new year's motto. I admit that I am a person who does show my love to others easily. It is just my personality or maybe inheritance... Anyway, I think the reason is that when a person have been hurt once, it is hard for him or her to show her love to others anymore.

That picture was still crystal clear in my mind where she told me in frustration that all the things I said were nonsense and lame. Few times after that, I have decided to not speak to her anymore and since then my heart was in coma. No more output of love anymore from that day onwards because I was confused, disappointed, angry, hurt, and my heart was shredded. I assume that card is a sign where I have to start forgive and move on. Ya...... after all it's been many years already. I hope I can make it dough.

Chinese New Year was not that bad after all since my friends were all present but they'll leave on tomorrow and I have to back to my own and live my life without them again. Oh..... I started to miss them already. Whatever it is, I will always wish them luck. Thanks for the good time together. Take care!

Well, there were two movies that I wanted to watch! Bride Wars and The Confession of a Shopaholic! I guess I shall bring my imaginary date for the movies!

Do not want valentine, just the roses. You know what I mean? XOXO GGFF